Living Separated…..

It sounds strange, funny and astonishing. 

Right?

If I be under your skin. My expression would be certainly 

‘’ how come it is possible?’’

                   HAVE YOU EVER HAD A SITUATION LIKE THIS? 

                 Feeling separated?

              The Reality is!!!!!! 

 IT IS MOST COMMON IN MANY HAPPY MARRIED LIVES AND IT HAPPENS. FOR SURE IT COULD BE A MOMENT OR A SCENARIO OR A SITUATION IN WORST CASES A FEELING COULD BE FOR FEW DAYS ATLEAST.( BEYOND THIS IS‘’ ABNORMAL ‘’) .we feel so lonely even though our loved one is around .

I used to wonder why? If, this is unavoidable. Well, why we are not able take it as a great opportunity to prove that ‘’time to time, things may change, but I remain ‘’unchanged’’. Instead we start behaving like an alien .just a silly argument can twist upside down everything. And makes our beautiful relationship, dry and dead. Eventually, drags us to a feeling that Living in the same house….as a total strangers…

The one who loves us, hurts us more? Whenever any argument takes place. Look at this strange ‘’behavior’’, we tend to lose temper and hurt other person till our ego gets satisfied. Often we say something that goes to extreme extent to hurt them… We keep on arguing till our sadistic behavior gets its bite, is it a love or hurt? Ultimately, we are not that kind, we never mean it. But when we realize, even sorry seems to be the least word. Then why this?’’ I don’t know whether you agree or not. Most of the broken relations implies to this behavior’’.

Why does it happen? When there is love? Is it a win-win struggle going between them?

If women can adjust so much before marriage and with the crooked world .why not after marriage and with someone whom she love? (the one, with whom, she will be, for the rest )

What is wrong with men? We do 101 things to win her love. We sing, we dance (if situation demands). We do anything for her because she is that exclusive out of millions. We even have strength to shoot the moon. Anything and everything we do, we only mean to say ‘’she is everything to you’’. Then why this? All of a sudden? This un-expected behavior. When you know she is everything. Why?

This happens to, even the passionate lovers (sometimes, at times).what happened to all that love? What happened to all those vows made to win the heart of the girl or boy…..?

You might have heard many couples saying that they are JUST LIVING!!!!

Just because of the society….how happy are they about it? A well said fact is ‘’love and being loved is the greatest joy’’. Then why this ego? Against your most loved ones? Do we deserve this? It is so painful and it hurts.

Do we really need to undergo this unbearable pain…seeing the person whom we love. ‘’my everything is hurt’’ but our hearts are at distant as possible…often we retrospect

How did I let this happen? Which is making me to conclude that it is difficult to live together…is this the outcome which they have been longing for a long time? (for years …)…if we get to hear from each one of them separately…they would say’’ I have been very patient, he/she did not understand’’. Are we good enough to judge? I bet all my myself, without your loved ones your life is drape. (Bible says ’’no one is perfect’’) Against odds are we thinking to solve the problem or adding fuel to it by saying so…

Expecting no quarrels. Either from the spouse or parents is highly impractical (no one accepts…) life is not a three hours show, played on big screens like movies. No two persons will ever be same? Even twins. And after all no one is perfectionist .Even after knowing the truth we expect our spouse to be exactly like us and like our family members. What an unfair thinking. Not at all realistic. It’s you and me we are putting off the fire of love…..

Enough. Stop this.

It is so weird and wicked No one wants this sort…. any more….

Does it have any solution? If you and I don’t like this .why we let ourself to live like this? LIVING, DEAD AND SEPERATED.

Why can’t we try to think from loved ones end (if you really love he/she)…and keeping all our egos aside.

Little love

Little care and

Little understanding.

Can change it all.

WHY DO WE NEED TO FEEL SEPARATE…..?

LET THE LOVE BIND….

KEEP ‘’EGOS’’ ASIDE.

LIVE TOGETHER

FEEL CONNECTED

LIVE HAPPILY…..